The complete potty training kit

Potty Training, Made Visual

A calm plan for you, a bunny story for your toddler and printables for the bathroom wall.

  • Two paths: a focused weekend or a gentle 2–3 weeks
  • Fixes for refusal, poop holding, fears and regression
  • A picture book your toddler can follow, boy and girl versions
  • Exact words to say, so no one ends up in a power struggle
Everything in the kit$27one-time
  • The Parent's Guide68 pages
  • Benny Uses the Potty18 pages
  • Bella Uses the Potty18 pages
  • Potty Time Printables13 pages
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What you get
Right after checkout you get an email with your download link for four PDF files: the 68-page Parent's Guide, two 18-page picture books (Benny for boys, Bella for girls) and a 13-page printable pack. Read them on your phone tonight, print what you need tomorrow.
Who it's for
Parents of children about 18 months to 4 years, whether you're starting for the first time, facing a daycare date, or trying again after a rough first try. The guide has its own pages for kids older than 3½, speech delay and autism.
Printing
US Letter, landscape. Everything works on a color or black-and-white home printer. Full-sheet sticker paper is optional for the reward stickers.
Guarantee
Use the kit for 30 days. If it isn't right for your family, email us and we'll refund you in full.
Sound familiar?

Every family gets stuck somewhere different

The guide is organized by the problem you actually have, so you can skip straight to your page.

“Daycare needs them trained by a date.”
A weekend plan you can start on Friday, plus a fill-in note for the teacher.
PAGES 16, 21–24, 48
“We tried. It turned into a battle.”
Why toddlers resist, the 5 rules that end the standoff, and when to pause.
PAGES 6–11
“Pee is fine. Poop is another story.”
The holding cycle explained, and a gentle step-by-step poop plan.
PAGES 34–39
“A new baby is coming.”
When to start, when to wait, and how to reset after a regression.
PAGES 31–32, 56

Whatever your situation, it fits one of two paths ↓

Pick your path

Two paths. Choose the one that fits your week.

Most methods give you one way. Both of these work, and the guide plans each one day by day.

Weekend Track

3 focused days at home

Hour-by-hour days 1 to 3, your first outing, and the week after.

  • You have a daycare deadline
  • Your child shows most readiness signs
  • You can stay home three days in a row
Step-by-Step Track

Small goals over 2–3 weeks

One clear goal per week, built around work, daycare and real life.

  • Both parents work, days are unpredictable
  • Your child is cautious or sensitive
  • A past try became a battle

Not sure? Take the 1-minute check

The same questions as page 17 of the guide.

Can you stay home 3 days in a row soon?
Is there a daycare or preschool deadline?
Is your child cautious or anxious with new things?
Did an earlier try turn into a battle?
Answer the four questions to see your path.
What's inside

One kit for you, your toddler and the bathroom wall

117 pages in four files, made to be used, not just read.

Cover of The Parent's Guide: a mom and dad reading a picture book with their son and daughter on the couch
The Parent's Guide · 68 pages

Your plan, one page at a time

  • A 10-minute version to read tonight
  • Both paths, planned day by day
  • 11 parts for refusal, poop, fears, nights, daycare and more
  • “Say this” and “Avoid” boxes on every topic
The two picture books: Benny Uses the Potty and Bella Uses the Potty
2 picture books · 18 pages each

Benny and Bella use the potty

  • A boy version and a girl version
  • Every step, from the tummy signal to washing paws
  • An “oops” page that takes the fear out of accidents
  • A last page for your child's own photo
Printed potty step cards, a 7-day star chart and a Big Kid certificate on a table
Potty Time Printables · 13 pages

Charts, cards and a certificate

  • 8 picture cards for the potty steps
  • 7, 14 and 30-day charts and 40 stickers
  • Dry-nights chart and Big Kid certificates
  • Pocket cards, a potty song and 20 praise phrases
PDF download link by emailUS Letter, landscapeColor or black & whitePhone, tablet or print
Your toddler's side

A story your toddler will ask for again

Toddlers copy what they see. Benny (or Bella) feels the tummy signal, runs to the potty, has an oops and becomes a big kid.

  • Short lines you can read on the potty while they wait
  • Real steps in the right order: stop, sit, wipe, flush, wash
  • Accidents shown as normal: “That's okay. We try again.”
  • The same bunnies on the charts, stickers and certificate
Benny the bunny crossing his legs: Uh-oh! Benny's tummy feels funny
Noticing the signal
Benny after a little accident, with a grown-up helping clean up
An accident is okay
Bella the bunny putting a star on her chart
Bella earns her star
Benny proudly wearing a medal: Benny is a big kid now
“I'm a big kid now!”
Look inside

One topic per page. Words you can use tonight.

Numbered steps, “Say this” scripts and the most common mistake on each page. Tap any page to see it full size.

Find your problem

Stuck on something? There's a page for it.

The guide runs from the most common struggle to the most specific, so the answer is easy to find in the moment.

  • Refusal and power strugglespages 6–11
  • “Am I late?” Real ages and readinesspages 12–16
  • Accidents, regression and the 3-day resetpages 29–33
  • Only poops in a diaper, holding, constipationpages 34–39
  • Fear of the flush and public bathroomspages 40–42
  • Nights, naps and when to drop the night diaperpages 43–46
  • Daycare, grandparents and two homespages 47–49
  • Car rides, travel, restaurants and parkspages 50–52
  • Boys sit first, girls wipe front to backpages 53–55
  • New baby, twins, older than 3½, speech delay, autismpages 56–60
Why you can trust it

Built on research. Written without shame.

Every number in the guide has its source printed at the bottom of the page, with the full list on page 66.

  • No speed promises. Children learn at different paces, and the guide says so.
  • No punishment, no forced sitting, no comparing kids.
  • Written for moms, dads and every caregiver who helps.
  • Clear red flags that tell you when to call your pediatrician.
American Academy of PediatricsNICE guidelinesC.S. Mott Children's Hospital poll, 2025Pediatrics (Schum et al.)Peer-reviewed reviews, 2006–2022
Guide page 8: Choices, not commands, with ready-to-say scripts
30day
guarantee

Try the whole kit for 30 days

Read the guide, print the charts and start your path. If it isn't right for your family, email us within 30 days of your purchase and we'll refund you in full.

Questions

Before you start

What age is this for?
Children about 18 months to 4 years. Readiness matters more than age, so the guide starts with a readiness checklist and the real ages most children get there (pages 12–13). There's also a page for kids older than 3½.
Weekend Track or Step-by-Step: how do I choose?
Use the 1-minute check above (it's also page 17). If you're unsure, start with Step-by-Step. You can switch to a focused weekend at any time.
Does it work for boys and girls?
Yes. There's a picture book for each (Benny and Bella), and the guide covers what's different: boys sit first and stand later, girls wipe front to back.
Do I have to use rewards?
No. The charts and stickers are optional. Page 11 explains which rewards help and which turn into bargaining.
My child goes to daycare or spends time with grandparents.
Part 8 gives everyone one plan: a fill-in note for the teacher, a page for two homes and sitters, and pocket cards you can hand to any caregiver.
What about nights?
Night dryness often comes later and depends on your child's body, not effort. Part 7 explains when to drop the night diaper and when to ask for help, and the printables include a dry-nights chart.
Is this a printed book?
No, it's a digital kit. Right after checkout you get an email with a link to download the four PDF files. Read them on your phone or tablet, or print at home on US Letter paper.
Is this medical advice?
No. It's an educational guide for parents. If you see any of the red flags on page 61, such as pain, blood or several days without a poop, call your pediatrician.
What if it doesn't work for us?
You have 30 days to try the kit. If it isn't right for your family, email us and we'll refund you in full.
The Parent's Guide and the potty step cards on a tablet
Start tonight

Read the 10-minute version tonight. Start your path this week.

THE COMPLETE KIT$27

Get the kit — $27
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